feat: Debian prep hardening, verify script, and quality pass
- 00-system-prep.sh: bootstrap sudo when run as root; on Debian enable
contrib/non-free-firmware (SKIP_NONFREE to opt out) + install needrestart
- scripts/verify-debian.sh: non-destructive post-install sanity checker
(exit 0/1) covering OS, tools, Debian renames, upstream tooling,
.NET/Podman/Postgres, groups, flatpak, dotfile symlinks
- 01-package-install.sh: auto-detect current Kubernetes minor from upstream
(fallback v1.36, override K8S_MINOR) instead of stale v1.32 pin
- fix shellcheck findings (SC2155, SC2207, SC2088); all scripts clean at
warning severity
- docs: fold decisions/status into plan; README lists new tools